“How?” is more useful than “Why?” (NLP Presuppositions)
Asking “How?” is useful in that it naturally leads to breaking a process down into manageable chunks, making healing and change, or accomplishment of our goals, more achievable.
Asking “How?” is useful in that it naturally leads to breaking a process down into manageable chunks, making healing and change, or accomplishment of our goals, more achievable.
If one person can do something, it is possible to model it and teach it to anyone else. Anything can be accomplished by anyone if it is broken down into small enough chunks.
There is no such thing as failure, only experience that helps us stay on the path to success. All information that comes to us can be utilized.
In any system, the element (or person) in the system with the widest range of variability (or flexibility) will be the controlling element.
This is what it’s all about—the freedom to find expression for yourself.
I had an interesting conversation with my youngest son this morning while he was getting ready for school, putting on his uniform
Healing, growth, and success are not a question of getting rid of behaviors, but rather of acquiring more behavioral choices that provide more options for useful responses in all areas of our lives.
We’ve heard of “Talk less, listen more.” quotes before. That’s been done a lot and it has worked for years, but how about observing people’s physiology?
When I retired from corporate life, it was because I felt I had something more to give to the world than just reports and excel spreadsheets.
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